VIOLENCE
Violence is an act of force to frighten or harm someone. Violence is an action being done intentionally to prove superiority over others physically, mentally, financially, and individually. Sometimes the violence can be the outcome of some incident or action that arises violence in the victim. Violence can be said the other form of aggressiveness.
VIOLENCE VS FAMILY:
@ArchanaPratap
Violence in the family is not a healthy thing to do. Also, it’s not fair to tolerate and visualize violence silently in the family. Violence being done either knowingly or unknowingly is dangerous for the atmosphere of the family for senior members, adults, and children in the house. Study, career, upbringing, behavior, habits, health, and family goodness get so much affected by violence. Violence should never be taken for granted. Violent people in the family should never be ignored and never be taken easily.
VIOLENCE VS CHILDREN:
@ArchanaPratap
Though violence is not okay in the family if there are children of any age in the family, it is very bad for their upbringing.
Children can develop serious diseases when they observe violence in the family. Their behavior, habits, temper, memory, study, daily routine, eating habits, talking patterns, attitude towards other children and elders, mental growth, and physical growth get affected by violence in a very devastating way. No doubt, violence is damaging the sweet childhood of many innocent children.
WHAT TO DO IF I HAVE A VIOLENT PERSON IN MY FAMILY:
- Talk in the family.
- Have a serious conversation about it in your community also.
- Visit some counselor.
- You can take the violent person for medical treatment.
- You can visit the domestic help Centre
- You can also seek help at the nearest police station if it gets worse.
REMEMBER FOR ANY HELP YOU ARE NOT ALONE. THERE ARE NUMBERS OF SOURCES TO GET HELP, YOU ONLY NEED TO KNOW AND YOU ONLY STEP OUT OF YOUR DOORS FOR HELP.
WHY PEOPLE GET INTO VIOLENCE:
It more depends on the behavior of persons if they are seriously violent or aggressive sometimes. Still, some intensive causes can turn a normal growing child into a violent adult. Here are some reasons:
Abusive childhood:
@ArchanaPratap
If a child suffers from an abusive history in childhood, it impacts the mental growth very much that fills the child with aggression, frustration, and a feeling of revenge. Which comes in the form of violence in the future when the child becomes strong enough as an adult.
Violent parents:
@ArchanaPratap
When there is some violent member in the family it affects the upbringing of the children a lot. Children are innocent. They don’t have a sense of right or wrong. What they observe, they become. Also, the children get a victim of violent parent and suffer from their violent behavior, there are great chances for them to get into violence just like them.
Witnessing violence:
Sometimes witnessing violence in the family, neighbor, and community also give rise to violence. Watching violent content can also influence being violent.
Lack of attention and respect:
Feeling lack of attention continually in and out of the family makes feel left out that fills the mind with suffocation and helplessness that results in violence. Lack of respect sometimes makes the people believe that violence can help them earn respect so they choose to be violent however it doesn’t make sense. Only good deeds are capable of helping out earning popularity and respect.
Low self-worth:
Having low self-worth that giving no outcomes for a better future. After making many efforts not able to prove my worth. Being more laborious than others giving nothing that is being thought to deserve. Continuous failure give rise to violence.
Easy access to weapon:
@ArchanaPratap
Having weapons can also make violence when a person realizes to rule others easily based on weapons. Frightening, beating, forcing, and being loudly violent can be because of easy access to weapons that give power over others.
Influence of Media:
In the twentieth century where the internet has become unavoidable means of information provider also it is easily accessible for people of all ages. Teenagers and small children playing violent games and watching violent content there. That casting some negative influence on them which can lead to a dangerous future when people get involved in activity full of aggressiveness and violence.
Insufficient parents concern:
In families mother and father both are working so the children live alone at home. In other cases, parents are busy with their own life so they don’t get much time to share the experience of their family mates. This lack of parents’ supervision would make their teens getting engage in risky behavior, aggressive action, and criminal activity because they have no superior advice or restriction over them to tell about good choices. Children should have parents’ motivation to be a good human beings.
Mental illness:
@ArchanaPratap
Mental illness is one of the major reasons for violence. There are several serious diseases in which people get violent now and then. Children are also suffering from these mental disorders. So, people of all ages can face violence because of these sicknesses.
Traumatic events
@ArchanaPratap
Mishappening with anyone is a really bad experience to go through. Not every person is strong enough to face these unpleasant events. Souls that are haunted by the traumatic events can lead to no patience and disturbed peace of mind which results in violence gradually.
Use of drug and alcohol:
Alcohol and drug use reduces fear whereas increases boldness, anger, frustration, and aggression. It is very much linked with violence as people lose control over themselves after being high. Actions of violence are noted after using alcohol and drugs.
